October 16th
How do you fight such a thing - it is intangible. You can’t put your hand up and say, “Stop.”
You can’t expect it to suddenly not happen ever again, or others to do it for you. We all suffer through it - age, nor race, nor gender can stop it. It has no limitations, no specifications, it is indiscriminate.
It is a feeling of being alone - or maybe it’s when you aren’t feeling anything - you know. You’re down - but not sad, you’re upset - but not mad, you’re just lonely.
It’s the feeling I get when I need some company - not just anyone - one particular someone - that someone who really I can’t say who they are.
So how do I rid myself of this feeling? What do I do to eliminate it?
I suppose counseling might be the best route of choice - first find out how people
feel - where does their loneliness start? Can they feel it coming? If so, you can learn to stop it there. Find the source and “kill it” so-to-speak.
But what if counseling is no good for you? Or you’re just not comfortable sharing your feelings with an “authority figure” like that. Then writing it down might be good. Write the date, time, and why you feel this way - look back later and try to avoid those situations in which you feel this way.
But then this perhaps will also not work for you. So finally at my last resort - go to your confidant. The one person you feel comfortable with to speaking about this. Talk it out. Work through why you might feel this way. Deliberate come to a conclusion, try to think “happy thoughts”. Have that person to turn to, that open ear, the awaiting shoulder.
These may work for you - and then again they may not, but we’re all different people. We have varying problems and need varying solutions.
How do you fight such a thing - it is intangible. You can’t put your hand up and say, “Stop.”
You can’t expect it to suddenly not happen ever again, or others to do it for you. We all suffer through it - age, nor race, nor gender can stop it. It has no limitations, no specifications, it is indiscriminate.
It is a feeling of being alone - or maybe it’s when you aren’t feeling anything - you know. You’re down - but not sad, you’re upset - but not mad, you’re just lonely.
It’s the feeling I get when I need some company - not just anyone - one particular someone - that someone who really I can’t say who they are.
So how do I rid myself of this feeling? What do I do to eliminate it?
I suppose counseling might be the best route of choice - first find out how people
feel - where does their loneliness start? Can they feel it coming? If so, you can learn to stop it there. Find the source and “kill it” so-to-speak.
But what if counseling is no good for you? Or you’re just not comfortable sharing your feelings with an “authority figure” like that. Then writing it down might be good. Write the date, time, and why you feel this way - look back later and try to avoid those situations in which you feel this way.
But then this perhaps will also not work for you. So finally at my last resort - go to your confidant. The one person you feel comfortable with to speaking about this. Talk it out. Work through why you might feel this way. Deliberate come to a conclusion, try to think “happy thoughts”. Have that person to turn to, that open ear, the awaiting shoulder.
These may work for you - and then again they may not, but we’re all different people. We have varying problems and need varying solutions.